This book has changed my entire perspective…If you are seeking to develop your awareness at a grander level I highly recommend "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz
My family and I hold up four fingers now anytime one of us is taking something personally or making an assumption, it's our sign to come back to our center and give ourselves a reality check and start becoming impeccable with our word (COMMUNICATION IS KEY!) and to always do our best! This doesn't ALWAYS work but holding the four fingers up is a reminder of the awareness in that given circumstance to check ourself!